Find confidence and peace in the modern dating world

Fed up with dating? I’m here for you!

Are you feeling lonely, tired, and frustrated with modern dating?

Let’s face it, modern dating is exhausting. Attempting to meet people in person has always been challenging, but it’s even more so now, with more and more people choosing to stay home rather than go out. We can also become stuck in our small social circles and it can be difficult to branch out beyond our comfort zone. 

The culture has shifted towards using dating apps, but often the dating apps don’t seem to bring the results you want. Rather, you end up on a repeating cycle that leaves you feeling stuck. There are bots and scams, ghosting, and people that hang out on the apps out of boredom or just to collect some validation and attention. When you finally do find a match to meet up with, the date is a dud or a flash in the pan.

It only hurts worse when it seems like everyone else around you is meeting their match, but you can’t seem to have any luck. Maybe you think something is broken with you and it can’t be fixed, and that’s why none of this is working. 

It can truly feel hopeless, especially if you are alone with no support. 

Despite how broken and hopeless you may feel, the truth is you can find ways to make peace with the challenges you’re facing, and you can have that chance to create and build an amazing connection with another person. I am here to support you to achieve that. I offer an unbiased perspective with individualized constructive feedback, and authentic and grounded support to help you navigate your goals and challenges.


What I offer…

Individualized and Non-Judgmental Support

Navigating modern dating is more difficult than ever! Let me support you through your dating woes, help you to get clarity on what it is you actually want and are ready for, and to identify your strengths and specific roadblocks and the patterns that are no longer serving you.

Online and Dating App Profile Edits, Polishing, and Communication

I will help you polish your profile to attract what you’re looking for. I can help you choose your photos, figure out what to write about yourself and what you want, and how how to best communicate in your messages to get that first date.

Fresh Perspective and Productive Feedback

Sometimes we can’t see the forest because we can only see the individual trees! I can provide a fresh, unbiased point of view on your unique set of challenges. My feedback is grounded in a positive and pragmatic framework that seeks to aim you towards strategies and solutions that will best serve you while also increase your peace of mind.

Meet the Coach

Hello, I’m Simmone! My approach to coaching is grounded in my belief in the power of human connection, the importance of being authentic, and seeing each person as a whole human being, with each person having good reason for being who they are today.

My background is in psychology, healthcare, and occupational therapy. This all contributes to my holistic and individualized approach with coaching. I don’t believe there is a one-size-fits-all program that will work for everyone. Not everyone has the same relationship goals, desires, or wants to express themselves in relationship to another in the same way.

I believe that one of the most human things we can do is connect authentically with others, and that everyone deserves a chance at creating that fulfilling connection with another special someone.

I have been in the trenches of modern dating, I’ve had my own failures and eventually my own great success. I empathize deeply with you who struggle out there, who feel alone and defeated, and I’m here for you!

“The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships.” -Esther Perel

  • I have received coaching from Simmone for a number of years now. I have had many very important breakthroughs talking things out with Simmone. She's a great listener and has incredible wisdom when it comes to relationships. With Simmone's help, I've discovered better and deeper ways to communicate non-violently, set key boundaries, and keep the spark of romance alive in my long term relationship. 10/10 recommendation!

    Jacob R.

    Copenhagen, Denmark

  • After a seriously traumatic breakup, venturing into dating after an 18-month 'recovery' was daunting. I was initially introduced to a 'love and dating' coach, a beautiful woman who has developed her own, unique approach to dating that just didn't feel comfortable or authentically me. A friend suggested I speak with Simmone as another option. My experience in two calls and follow up emails has been a relief. Simmone is all about showing up authentically as yourself. She acknowledged the different approaches, and hers works for me! With a calm, curious, kind and inviting style, Simmone helped me reduce some of my anxiety about dating, how and which apps to use and, perhaps most importantly, gave me excellent feedback on what I had initially written and actually revised what I wrote (a huge thanks!) with excellent suggestions and explanations of how to get started. Now that I'm online, I plan to use Simmone's expertise to help me stay true to myself and 'coach' me through using the experience of meeting a variety of men to help me get really clear on what I'm looking for in and eventually meeting 'my person.' Something she believes is possible, which helps me believe so, too.

    Ellen S.

    Durango, CO

  • For years I struggled with low self esteem, panic attacks and anxiety. I still have moments but talking with Simmone has been so healing and empowering. She has really helped me overcome deep mental entanglements and opened my eyes to new possibilities. She is a wonderful listener and truly cares about her clients.

    Frances M.

    Lake Charles, LA

  • Simmone's approach is grounded in empathy, authenticity, and a refreshing practicality that goes beyond standard advice--she truly listens, sees beneath the surface, and helps people express their most genuine selves. She doesn't just help you find connection in the dating world; she helps you find a deeper, more authentic version of yourself to bring to those connections.

    Aaron T.

    Durango, CO

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